The Power of Friendliness with the Impetus of Curiosity.

The Power of Friendliness with the Impetus of Curiosity.

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I am so curious about the contents of a Curiosity Shop, aren't you?

 

Aplombe? It Gets You Far.

Aplombe? It Gets You Far.

Flambe with Aplombe at the Flambe Gourmet in Madison WI

Flambe with Aplombe at the Flambe Gourmet in Madison WI

Aplombe is essential.

 

 

2012 – How Many People Are Using Social Media Today

2012 – How Many People Are Using Social Media Today

Check out what happens in Social Media in 2012 every 60 secs.

Chances are you’re on social media.

 At least Facebook right?

Or you’re wondering who is on social media…

Either way – you’ll find the results of this infographic fascinating.

It was designed by David Fung (@cobradave) for Social Jumpstart.

We asked David how he got the idea to organize the shear volume of people using the most popular social media venues in 2012.

Social Media  is Omnipresent.  Are you Omnipresent in Social Media?An amazing number of people are using social media everyday.  Infographic by SocialJumpStart.com as seen in Socialtimes.com

Social Media? Everyone is using it.


How did we ask?  Using social media of course.  (We tweeted to him publicly by the way – not using the more private method of direct messaging.  Direct messaging would have required asking first that he follow us.)

The graphic’s creator uses social media tools pretty well himself.

You’ll notice that David convienently added his Twitter account to the end of the graphic as both a signiture and a contact method.  Smart move.  It made it easy for us to tweet a request to speak to him directly to him.

We are looking forward to hearing from him.

Meanwhile – how are you adding your social media contacts methods to your work?  How reachable are you?

 

Here's what my initial tweet to @cobradave looked like.

Twitter is a great way to make direct contact with people you aren't linkedin to - or are yet friends with.

 

 

 

 

Are You Still Wondering Why Tweet? – Let’s Talk About All The Chatter.

While by March 2012 there were 140 million active members using twitter daily – chances are you aren’t. 

There are reasons why you don’t.  These might be some of them:

  • It seems like just so much chatter.
  • You’re private and want to keep your private stuff private.
  • You don’t see how you can connect with anyone interested in your products or services.

You’ve checked Twitter out once upon a time.

You may even have a twitter account you set up ages ago but never really “got into.” 

The trouble is that like all digital media these days it took Twitter just a little while to “grow up.”  And it took a moment or two for adults and business people to see all the uses inherent in Twitter.

Think Twitter is just a lot of noise?

You aren’t the only one.  But why be in the group of folks not using Twitter to learn, share, and add depth to your interactions with your “tribe”?

Don’t have time to waste on chatter?

You’ll be surprised – but that means Twitter is a perfect medium for you.  Don’t believe it? Here’s why:

  • You choose who you want to “listen to” by picking the people you follow.
  • You don’t need to hear anything from Lady Gaga (no matter how big her following on Twitter.)
  • It also means that you have a CNN like news feed from the people and institutions that are important to you.

So how is Twitter telling you just what you need to know – just when you want to know it?

This is how it goes:

You choose to follow National Geographic, The Wall Street Journal, or your favorite expert in your field.  In seconds you get access to the information you really want to know.  No sifting through articles on MSN.com.  No wasted time scanning through Google search results.  Just glance down a tidy list telling what your expert sources have to share in a tight 140 characters.  Click the link there if you want more or watch the attached video. No unnecessary filler.  No wasted time.

This gives you thoughts, links, news, photos, and videos in real time “straight from the horse’s mouth” so to speak.

  • There is no one interpreting what is being said by the White House for you when the tweets are coming straight from the White House.
  • When Tony Robbins says something – you hear it in his words – not someone else’s thoughts on what someone else said Tony said.
  • Wondering what your competition is saying? You hear it straight from them.

Twitter gives you instant high quality connection with content relevant to your life and business success.

Persuasive Presentation – The 3 Most Important Tips on How to Write to Sell

Are you trying to organize an article, a blog post, or a presentation, and trying to persuade your audience to “buy in”?

 

There are 3 ways to avoid the click away reflex of the modern internet consumer.

Today’s readers are jaded.  They don’t want to be pitched, sold, or marketed to.  They are online because they looking for a reliable source, an expert that can relieve their dilemma.

Your readers need convincing that you are that reliable source in a way that doesn’t send them running.

It’s a fact that readers will move on to the next article as soon as they sense you are marketing to them.  You need to know how to write to sell – while not setting off that “click away” reflex.

The 3 essential  pieces to avoid reader “click away” when writing for the internet are:

  1. Description

Writing a good description of your reader’s issue lets them know they are reading the right article.

  1. Empathy and Understanding

Presenting the problem through your reader’s perspective.  This is where you keep your reader interested and make them value what you have to say.

  1. The Solution

You give away some of the facts that show you know how to solve their problem.

Why writing to sell makes it important that you include these 3 elements in your blogs.

Sometimes we do searches and Google throws a variety of answers at us.  Choosing the right one isn’t as easy as picking from the top of Google’s list of suggestions. There’s a moment where the reader “tests” Google’s response to their query.

It’s while your reader is testing you as a source that you need to grab them.  If you don’t – their hand has clicked – and they are on their way to someone else’s writing.

What do you accomplish through starting with a written description of their problem?

The fact you can describe their problem so well is part of the key to selling the answer.  This is why you let your reader understand immediately that you get their problem.

Why is being able to write for the internet with empathy for your reader so important?

As the reader scans your article she looks for your tone.  Can she relate to you?  Only if you can relate to what her problem is – if she feels you are supportive – will your reader will keep reading.

Describe your reader’s problem first.  Outline the reality of their situation.  Then show you have empathy for what they are going through. Write about how their issue effects them. Only after these two steps can you even think about explaining how you can help them.

Close your article with a solution – but keep your sales pitch out of it if you want to close the reader.

Presenting your solution – at least a reasonable short summary – should be straight forward.

Don’t pitch.  Just give some facts on how you can help.  Let them come to you because they think it’s a good idea – not because they have submitted to a pitch.

The best way to talk to your reader when you are writing to sell?

Treat your reader like your friend.

Hopefully this means to you a 3 basic things.

  1. understanding her problem – and letting her know
  2. being empathetic – and vocalizing it
  3. lending a hand in the ways that you can – what can you provide that will help?

Those are your best tips to writing to sell.

Best of luck.  Remember being a friend and helping each other is always a great way to live.

I’ll be posting more examples and more in depth information on future posts.

Hispanics Online How Are You Building Connections?

What’s the Difference Between a Hispanic and Someone Who is “Americanizado”?

It’s a given – if you’ve been looking at census reports – that the American Hispanic population is growing.  You may know that the Hispanic community isn’t one size fits all. The differences of country of origin show up everywhere within the American Hispanic population – what Cubans eat is nothing like what Mexican’s cook, for example.

But wait – dividing Hispanics by country of origin isn’t the only thing to consider.

People without a Hispanic heritage need to start paying attention.  Not only do Hispanics come from different cultural backgrounds, but they may – or may not be – as “Hispanic” as stereotyped.  How long they have been in America, even how old they were when they did emigrate has an impact on how they live and communicate within the overall American culture (conducted primarily in English.)   And what if they were born here? What if they were born American citizens? And what if their “Latin” parents were also born here – but they still indentify as Hispanic?

It’s time to pay attention to the cultures within the culture of the American Hispanic.

There is plenty of information on what is the difference between Argentinean and a Panamanian.  But have you given much consideration to the difference between the Cubans that came over as adults in the ‘60’s and how they shop in the wealthy Coral Gables area of Miami-Dade and a new immigrant from Cuba today?  What’s the difference between the kind of Latins that are in the popular American band “Los Lonely Boys” and some fellows that might be in a local mariachi band? Is your marketing program adding that to the mix? They need to be.

Don’t assume that all American Latinos even speak Spanish.

Have you stopped to think that a huge part of the Hispanics in the United States have been educated in American schools?  That means they have been taught to read and write in English.  No matter how much they speak Spanish at home, how much Spanish reading do you think they are doing?  This should make you start thinking about your Facebook pages and your tweeting. But does that mean drop all Spanish references from your communications in English to this Hispanic population? Nope.

Don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater – research your target Hispanic group first.

This isn’t to say that Hispanics born in the United States don’t want to see something of their culture reflected back to them.  If someone is still indentifying as “Hispanic” then there is value to them in that culture – there is still a connection.  Don’t ignore that.  That’s like treating someone from Texas like a New Yorker.  Erasing the lines between cultures doesn’t always build the best relationships online or off.

The point is – get over your stereotypes of Hispanics in America – no matter how well you think you “see” them.  Take time to learn who they really are – today.

Aside: Seems like too much to target at once?  Maybe this is a strong argument towards the “localization” trends stores like Walmart and Winn Dixie are pursuing.

Stone Crab Captain – Skipper Boyle

Stone Crab Captain – Skipper Boyle

We'll be talking to a Florida Stone Crab Captain!
We'll be talking to a Florida Stone Crab Captain!

We'll be talking to a Florida Stone Crab Captain!

Skipper has been bringing in Florida Stone Crabs for over 60 years.

As soon as he gets a break from starting the stone crab season (Oct 15th to May 15th) he’ll be talking to us about his experiences.

 

 

 

The World is a Beautiful Book For Those Who Read It.

Fortune Cookie Wisdom via MadelineHere

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Be a tactician: Don’t Over Look Your Own Opportunity.

Fortune Cookie Wisdom via MadelineHere

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Education is what survives when what has been learnt has been forgotten

Fortune Cookie Wisdom via MadelineHere

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Executive Ability Is In Your Make Up.

Fortune Cookie Wisdom via MadelineHere

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He who dies with the most toys -

is nonetheless dead.

Money is

the root of all wealth.

Conclusion:

the place where you got tired of thinking.

With our thoughts, we make our world.

Fortune Cookie Wisdom via MadelineHere

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It is much wiser to take advice than to give it.

Fortune Cookie Wisdom via MadelineHere

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What I saw

What I saw

Winter the Dolphin's younger friend Hope at the Clearwater Marine Aquarium

Early this spring at the Clearwater Marine Aquarium.  Took this photo on their webcam the day after visiting.  I fell in love with this baby dolphin. They have named her Hope.

Hope had been found in December trying to nurse from her dead mother.  She’s not as famous yet as her pal at the Aquarium, Winter, the cetacean star of A Dolphin Tale,  but her story is just as compelling.

Winter the Dolphin's younger friend Hope at the Clearwater Marine Aquarium

Being oh-so-gentle with Hope, the baby dolphin.

Have you looked at the sky today?

Have you looked at the sky today?

You will see your horizons open as you stop to focus up --
You will see your horizons open as you stop to focus up --

You will see your horizons open as you stop to focus up --

You will see your horizons open as you move your focus upwards…